I have friends who tell me that every time and I have troubles to say that i want something without feeling shitty so tried a loophole for both our brains and phrase sentences like:
“If you like you can do that AND would make me very happy on the way, or you stay at home and I will be very happy for you! Either way I am happy!”






I really really try not to be manipulative and also writing in English makes it harder for me 😅
I already tried to write like 5 times because I thought the same.