Community is what you make it. I’ve been fortunate enough to have great neighbors

  • SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world
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    6 days ago

    Kids don’t play outside anymore in the US because streets have been designed primarily for cars.

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    6 days ago

    It’s missing the part where some boomers complained to the city council about noisy delinquents and got a curfew enacted.

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        6 days ago

        It is 1 billion percent the norm around me. I personally have been fined for three different basketball hoops in two states by boomer ass HoA board members. They (boomers and HoA’s alike) are literally the anti fun police.

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            6 hours ago

            Love that you just come in here saying everyone else is wrong, yet not once admit maybe this is a huge problem after experiencing countless examples:).

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            5 days ago

            Same reason I “choose” to work for a shitty employer or do business with a shitty company or live in a shitty city/state/country - sometimes my options are limited and I can’t afford to opt out of society entirely. When it comes to HoAs, in the area I live my options were severely diminished. Choosing a house without one means that I’d just be complaining about some other compromise I felt forced to make.

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            5 days ago

            Most new build neighborhoods in the last 2-3 decades are part of an HOA. Finding a house not contractually part of one is not the norm

          • null@lemmy.org
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            5 days ago

            It’s not really a choice when accounting for location and affordability. Sometimes it’s HOA or renting forever… or renting in an HOA if you’re truly damned.